
Lending your car to a friend? Ask about the driver before handing over keys
Check driver exclusions, household use, and your actual policy before assuming a friend or relative can borrow your insured car.

Key takeaways
Permission alone does not answer every coverage question.
Check excluded drivers and regular household use.
Get the insurer's explanation before the trip.
Describe who will drive and how often
A one-time errand and a relative using your car every weekday deserve different questions. Tell the insurer who the person is, whether they live with you, how often they will drive, and whether the trip involves business or delivery work. This is a fact-finding conversation, not a request to label every situation casual borrowing. Keep license and personal details in a private channel rather than posting them online.
Read the driver restrictions in your policy
CDI advises reading your policy before allowing someone else to drive because some drivers may be excluded. Locate any named-driver exclusion or relevant endorsement and ask the insurer to explain it for this person and use. Avoid relying on a general slogan that insurance follows the car. Ask separately about liability, damage to your vehicle, deductibles, and how any other policy might be considered; the answer depends on the contracts and facts.
Resolve the question before sharing the keys
If a driver must be added or another change is needed, ask when it becomes effective and request the updated paperwork. Do not treat a message requesting a change as proof that the insurer accepted it. Keep a note of the answer with the policy. Cardona's can help you prepare a driver-review request and explain the available next step. If the proposed use remains unclear, arrange different transportation until you have an answer.
- Driver and household relationship
- Frequency and purpose of use
- Written explanation of any required change
Common questions
Is every friend automatically covered when I give permission?
Do not assume that. Ask about the driver, use, exclusions, and policy terms before lending the vehicle.
What if a relative starts driving regularly?
Tell the insurer about the changed use and ask whether the driver must be listed or the policy changed.


